Ready to submit or cold feet?
Not quite ready to approach your first session?
Here's Mistress Ultra Violet's tips to help you take the leap!
No matter if it's your first time approaching a Dominatrix or your 100th time, the before session butterflies can make going through with an appointment a difficult task.
Submitting to a Dominatrix is not for the weak!
A successful session entails:
- Shared fetish interests
- Direct communication
- Mutual Trust
- Chemistry
- Consent & negotiation
Shared interests: If you've looked through My website you'll see a list of things I offer and skillfully enjoy. If you don't see your particular role play or fetish on My list, you may inquire with a brief email.
Direct Communication: My application is designed to highlight your experience, your interests, your health status, and any limits I need to be aware of before engaging in a session. I prefer initial communication to be brief and concise, so I can focus on your needs as well as My time.
Mutual Trust: I have many reviews available as well as interviews and clips that show My longtime standing as a Professional Dominant. My Dungeon has been around for many years, and My online presence reflects that. I practice RACK (RiskAwareConsensualKink) and SSC (SafeSaneConsensual) which are industry standards for safe play.
I require an initial tribute, and sometimes a phone number from My potential submissives as part of a screening process for My safety, and so I can trust you'll show up!
Chemistry: The best way to see if we have chemistry is to book a consultation call. I include a call in My initial tribute amount that goes toward the total rate. I'm also available on Sextpanther and Niteflirt to chat and get some familiarity. Please note I am not allowed to discuss booking or in person meetings over TEXT, so please schedule a time to CALL.
Consent & Negotiation: After I've collected and gone over your application, collected your initial tribute, and set a time and date, your sole duty is simply show up! Yes, thats it, show up! The first few minutes we'll discuss your application, your interests, your limits, and make sure everything you've listed is something you still feel completely comfortable doing. We will also discuss safe words and protocol to stop the session if you start to feel uncomfortable. Please know I do not take this personally, and will not hold any resentment if you change your mind! Consent and communication is the basis of BDSM, and I take it very seriously.
So, does that answer a few questions for potential submissives? I hope you'll get courage you've been seeking!
Questions? MistressUltraViolet@protonmail.com
